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In Loving Memory of
Tina,
Jimmy & Ali, our prayers are with you. The Patterson family
is very dear to us. Cameron was a very special part of your lovely
family. Our
deepest sympathy and prayers are extended to all of the Patterson
family during this difficult time
. Our
thoughts and prayers are with the Patterson Family during this time.
Cameron you will be deeply missed. Barbara & Johnny,
My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time.
I love you both. I
loved every moment raising Cameron. As he loved adventure in life,
he gave me the adventure of a lifetime. We love the Pattersons! Our
family stands with you in this time of grief. I share this legendary
Cameron quote from a few years ago..."Ms.
Jayna....don't move...I promise it does not bite!" Praying
for you guys...my heart is with you, I love your family very much. I
never got the opportunity to meet Cameron, but I have "seen" him
grow up over the years through all of the stories from Jimmy. I can't
pretend to know what you are going through. I love you Jimmy and
will continue to pray for you and your family through this difficult
time. Cameron
was our second son. We will truly miss him. His earthly body is gone
but his spirit will live on forever in our hearts and minds. We
are proud to be part of this family, and prouder still of the faith,
love and hope I continue to see everyday displayed by Tina, Jimmy & Ali....you
inspire us all to be strong too. No denial that there is a big hole
left in our hearts, and when we hit those low moments, we will pray
for God's peace to help us through. We love you Cameron and will
miss you terribly!!! Love you all forever!!! Uncle John, Aunt Jeanne,
Alex, Danielle & Matthew Tina
and Jimmy, my prayers are with you and your family. Words
cannot express the tremendous sense of loss and compassion that I
feel for Cameron's family and friends. Cameron was a true gentleman,
with a refreshing sense of humor. I know he was a wonderful son and
brother, and I feel honored to have met him. The Patterson's faith
and strength is admirable, and I pray for Cameron, his family and
friends to have continued strength and faith, now and forever. Our thoughts and prayers are with the Patterson family. When we learned of Cameron's passing in Maine, our hearts sunk. This is such a tragic loss and the fear every parent has and can relate to instantly. We know every person and especially young people experience challenges. I am always saddened to hear such news and had hoped any person in such a position as Cameron's would grant themselves a few minutes to reflect. Most young people do not have tools to know how to handle these moments and only time is on their side. If only we could get the message to these young people to give themselves that one extra moment. In Maine we had met Cameron's through his best friend Brandon Carroll. Though a brief visit, we know him to be a kind person. Our hearts go out to the family and close friends. Please give all
your kids a huge hug and tell them you love them. My
heart is with your family and I wish I could have known Cameron
he was obviously a very special young man. Love Ronda. Jimmy,
Tima and Ali, Liam and I Love you guys so much and we are continuing
to pray for you. Cameron and your family have shown us and taught
us so much love and faith that we will carry with us forever. We
still love him so much. Thank you for giving us the chance to have
him in our lives. Tina,
Jimmy and Ali, my thoughts and prayers are with you during this very
difficult time. I didn't know Cameron well, but know from your stories
that he was very special to you as well as to those who knew him.
I know his spirit will live on forever in your hearts. Tina & Jimmy.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Tina, Jimmy & Ali, Our
precious Children we Love so much. We loved Cameron with all the
love Grand parents can have for their Grand Children
and words can not describe how much he will be missed. He brought
so much happiness into our lives, each and every time he saw us,
he made us feel so special, always a "Love you", a kiss
and a hug to beat all hugs!! When I ponder with the "Why Lord?" No
answer seems to come, only the words in a beautiful song, "It
is well with my Soul", over and over, yes indeed peace in
my heart tells me it is well with Cameron's Soul, we know he is
with
the Lord and is no longer in pain, and that we will see him again
when God calls us home. We're going to miss him, but he will never
be out of our thoughts and remembrances of all the wonderful times
we spent with him. He was truly a blessing sent to us from above. Dear
Jimmy, Tina and Allie: Tina & Jimmy – I
pray that God gives you peace and comforts you during this difficult
time. My prayers are with you and your entire family. What
a beautiful young man to leave us so soon! I am sorry I did not know
him: he clearly made a positive difference in many lives, even in
his short time. I know that he made a huge difference in the lives
of our friends Melanie and Shari, who will miss him terribly. They
have spoken of him often in appreciation for his love, character
and support. All of us at Shari's office have grieved with you all
at Cameron's passing. May God's love sustain you. Your
sorrow is not wasted. I am believing that God has already and will
continue to use Cameron, his story, and his life for the Lord's ultimate
glory. Oh, my sweet, sweet boy. You will be sorely missed by so many. I am so thankful to have had you in my life. You loved my girl well and she returned that love fully. You influenced my and Melanie's life so much and with such joy and passion. The strength of your faith also touched us, especially Melanie. You will be with us always, held close in our hearts. Jimmy, Tina, and Ali, Melanie and I love you all very much. Thank
you for taking us into your family. We are here for you whenever
and whatever
you may need. Dearest
Jimmy, Tina and Ali
-Marian and Rick Tina,
Jimmy,and Ali, From the moment I heard about Cameron's death my heart
has been on fire with grief for you. I have experienced the arms
of Jesus in my time of deep grief, though,and I know that those strong
tender arms will gather you in and hold you there until you regain
the strength that He gives us to keep on walking. Rest in his arms
for a while, and let the body care for you. It's a good place to
be. Cameron,
although your time here was too brief, you touched so many lives.
We are all better for knowing you and forever changed because you're
gone. We
didn't know Cameron very well, but he impressed us so much a few
years ago. We were visiting at your house, sitting and eating Tina's
delicious food when Cameron approached, introduced himself and then
we had a nice little talk. He told us he was planning to go to college
and then asked if he could get us more food and drinks. We thanked
him and after he left we looked at each other and asked what 17 year
old these days would be so thoughtful and kind to someone he didn't
know. What a sweet and gentle boy. Our hearts and deepest sympathy
go out to you and all of the Pattersons. How
painful and tragic! Though I can't fathom the pain you are going
through, I can tell you that it is shared by many as each of us feel
a part of it to! I will be praying for your family. I
am so sorry. I am praying for your entire family. Jimmy
and Family, I was so shocked and saddened to hear of this news. Cameron
was a pleasure to know and work with the few times I had the opportunity.
I remember his quick wit and good nature the most. Please let us
know if there's any way we can be of assistance in this great time
of grief and need. May God's love embrace you, as it does Cameron,
forever. Like
so many here are prayers are with you and your family. You have a
special family and we love you all. - Steve and Shelley + The Boys Dear
Cameron, may you rest calmly in the arms of eternal peace knowing
that you were truly loved. I work for one of Mental Health America's affilates in NJ. I just visited the site for some information and I saw your son's photo - what a beautiful young man. The loss of you son must be so unimaginable and overwhelming. I have twin sons (3 years old) and I cannot imagine anything happening to them. I want you to know that you are not alone and that you gave your son all you could to help him. Suicide sometimes can be seen as the only result to end the grief, suffering, and pain. I have twice tried to take my own life and at the split second that I made that decision, it seemed like the logical solution. There is nothing that anyone could have said or done to stop me - in fact, people were trying to help me but the agony was too much for me to bear. I just wish you peace and comfort and hope that as each day passes, a little of your grief turns into happiness that you had a beautiful boy that blessed your lives and continues to bless your lives each day. With deepest sympathy and heartfelt prayers - I
was disheartened to learn of your loss. I never wanted anyone I know
to experience what our family went through earlier this year. Your
family was very gracious. There are no words to express our feelings
toward your loss. Thinking
about being gone literally takes my breath away. He was such a respectful,
smart, handsome, caring, athletic, and amazingly driven person. I
truly miss him, and will never ever forget him. I love you, Cam My
thoughts and prayers are with you. What a wonderful looking young
man. My son is a few years older and every day he struggle with life. Our
thoughts and prayers are with you. Cameron was a wonderful young
man. We always enjoyed seeing him when he came over with Melanie.
He always spoke of you all with much love. Take comfort that he is
at peace now. Cameron:
I didn’t watch you grow up, but rather “heard” you
grow up through your father’s perpetual praise. I “heard” you
wrestle and defeat the older competitors twice your size; I “heard” you
work harder and smarter than most “professionals” during
video shoots; I “heard” you giving your heart to your
family; I “heard” you becoming a man; I “heard” your
excitement of going off to college. One day we’ll all be together
and I’ll hear about you again. May you smile upon us, your
family and friends, with the love of our Heavenly Father. I
just found out about your son, Cameron. We have been in Colorado
visiting our grandchildren. Words can't express how sorry I am for
your lose. My
thoughts and prayers are with all that love this child. As a mother
who loves her sons and knows one of those sons has battled with his
bipolar and come very close to his death many times over the past
decade, I send my empathy to all that miss him, and continue to heal
from the loss. Jimmy
and family-Please accept my sympathy for the terrible loss of Cameron.
My heartfelt prayers go out to you and your family that God will
comfort you now and as always. What a privilege to raise such a handsome
young man that I'm sure has touched so many lives. May loves' everlasting
connection lift you, hold you close, and give you peace. October
9th would've been Cam's 19th birthday - we are celebrating his life
by spending the day on the lake, his favorite thing to do and by
going to the Vanderbilt Dyer Observatory to see the star named for
him by our dear friends, the Carrolls. Please take a moment to celebrate
Cam by living and loving well, all those who you hold dear. May the
love of God wrap us and keep us all close as we seek Him for comfort. We
are so shocked to hear of your loss. You are in our thoughts, hang
in there. We love you guys. Tina,
Jimmy and Ali, I adored Cameron. When he came into the shop to see
Jennifer, I loved to impress him with all my wit and knowledge of
different movies that I knew he liked. He was always gracious and
would appease me with great laughter. Derek and I delighted in seeing
him at the Brentwood Y. Your family is precious and I am honored
to know you and call you friends. I
have Cameron's picture in my office to remind me everyday how precious
life is and what an amazing person Cameron was. I was fortunate to
have had him here at the Brentwood YMCA as an outstanding lifeguard
and swim instructor. He touched many lives here with his kindness,
patience, and zest for life. My life will always be better for knowing
him! Tina, Jimmy, and Ali, my prayers are with you always and I will
be thinking about you all on the 9th. Dear Pattersons, Your lives were changed on September 15, 2007 as it has done so many times before. September 15, 2007 marked the end of how you as a family existed and the beginning of a new existence. Your family has suffered a great loss, a loss that will forever live within your hearts. As all families do, you have shared in an abundance of emotions. You have experienced one anothers joys and sorrows, triumphs and defeats. You will carry with you your own special memories and morn in your own special way. However, know that at the end of the day all your questions and thoughts, pain and prayers are one in the same and through these most trying times one thing will remain. That being the love for your family, both the living and dead. May God bless all of you and may these words bring you comfort as it did for our family in a time of need. "Letter From Heaven" - By Ruth Ann Mahaffey
All our love, It is so difficult to put into words how the lost of our grandson, Cameron, has affected our lives. In the 19 years God has shared Cameron with us we have experienced so much joy in watching him grow from an inquisitive young boy into a mature young man. It is only through the teachings in the Bible that, as Christians, we know and are assured that this is not the end of Cameron's life but only a new beginning, as everyone eventually will have to go through someday. This is the process of life that God has created for all of us. The knowledge that Cameron is in heaven with our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ is the only thing that makes our lost bearable. Cameron will never be forgotten as long as he lives in the hearts and minds of all those who loved him. We do not know or can comprehend why Cameron's life on earth was cut so short; but we are assured that Jesus, in his infinite wishom is always in control of all things. We thank God for the many, many, joys that Cameron had brought into
our lives. Sally and I hope that all who shared in Cameron's life will
find some comfort in knowing that Cameron is now with our Lord and
someday we too will be reunited with Cameron and all our love ones.
We all someday will leave this earthly body and join Cameron in a more
fulfillig life in Heaven with our Lord Jesus. Cameron will always be
part of our lives and will live in our hearts and memories forever. First of all, Jimmy, Ali and I thank you for all the kindness shown to us during this time of grief. We are trying to reestablish our routines leaning on God's strength and are allowing people to love on us. Tomorrow, October 9th, is Cameron's birthday and he would've been 19 years old. We are planning to celebrate his memory and his life by doing what he absolutely loved, being on the water - the last time we were with him was Labor Day on the lake. Then we are going to head to a local Observatory to view a star that has been named in Cam's honor. Please pray for us tomorrow - that it be a day of peace and joy. As we all know, the joy of the Lord is our strength. Blessing to you all, Tina & Jimmy Cameron has been such a blessing to me (Maw Maw). It was always so much fun to watch him play and have fun be it playing kicking cans, baseball, swimming, fishing, catching frogs, lizards, wrestling, boating, reading- Wow, Maw Maw gets tired just listing a few of his favorite activities. He loved to laugh and tell jokes and play them on people, especially Maw Maw and Paw Paw. He taught us how to build a fire in the fire place just the way his Dad taught him. When he was three years old he spent 2 weeks with us on the farm. Mam Maw was living with us then and he would sneak back to her room and stay longer than usual only for me to catch Mam Maw giving Cameron all the cookies and coke he wanted. He loved Popeye cartoons so much we had to play the tapes over and over sometimes till late at night. One visit Tina wanted to know if Cameron was brushing his teeth and taking a bath daily. Well the teeth hadn’t been done and Cameron would get wet in the tub but he did not use the soap much. I did correct this however. I couldn’t keep enough clothes cleaned because if he would see something he wanted to catch he would leap up out the house with clean socks without shoes on and catch his prey, that being lizards, frogs, turtles and bugs of all kinds. He also had special snacks we would get at the first of a visit. He would keep them in his room and this would delight him to have his private stash. He would eat so many green apples I thought he would turn into one. I loved hearing him tell me how he and his Dad would hunt, boat and fish together and enjoyed the pictures he would show me of their adventures. He had grown into such a pleasant, trust worthy young man. We all were proud that his parents had done such a wonderful job teaching him the Bible and all about Jesus's teachings, teaching him to be kind and caring and watching him to grow up to be the wonderful son he was. Cameron was admired by the young and old. He could talk on virtually all subjects in the animal kingdom and insects with such authority. He got that from watching the Discovery Channel which was his favorite program. Cameron was not an early raiser unless it was something he wanted to do that morning. I could talk to him and he loved me so much I could feel it in his approval. I miss him so much. He would hug me and tell me he loved me and that everything was going to be alright. When
he was in his early teens and going froging, I would tell him I will
go with you. He’d say “Oh Maw Maw you don’t
have to”. My reply was that’s ok someday you will grown
up and replace me with a lovely young lady and he did and that was
okay. I miss him more that any words can tell. Cameron was our first
grandson and we loved him so and he will always be in our hearts and
memories forever. We will meet again someday in Heaven with all our
loved ones who have gone on before us. I thank Jesus for giving us
Cameron even though it was only for a short time. Cameron will never
be forgotten. I
went to school with Cameron and I know he was a nice guy. I just
want to let his family know that there in my prayers.Cameron might
be gone,but he's not forgotten. Happy
Birthday Cameron! You are missed by everyone who met you and many
who did not. Tina,
Jimmy and Ali- I think of you guys daily and continue to pray for
your strength to live through the intense grief you are feeling.
We have so many wonderful memories of time spent with you guys, especially
Cameron. He was an amazing young man. It was a joy to be around him.
Tina, we spent many hours talking about the challenges of raising
our kids. You and Jimmy are incredible parents who have shown strength
and wisdom through the tough times, as well as the fun. You have
honored God in all that you have done. God will continue to hold
you in His hands and bless you. We love you all. I
have been waiting to write so I can think of the right thing to say.
I was thinking of Cameron today while walking outside and I saw a
frog hopping by, I couldnt help but laugh. The same thing comes to
mind everytime. I love Cameron. I love him, I love him, I love him.
I know he had a great life because he had awsome parents and a wonderful
sister not to mention good friends. He was a wonderful person. When
sitting at the memorial I looked back and saw the whole church filled.
Cameron is so loved by all who knew him. His spirit will live on
forever in the stories we tell and the memories we think of so often.
I love you Tina, Jimmy and Ally. I did not know Cameron very well, but I knew him enough to miss him alot. When first heard about this, I fell to the ground. I was crying for days because I didn't get to know this man. I used to go where he worked and when I would see him, I would not have the guts to say hi or anything. I really regret that. I have not gotten used to the fact he is gone, but I have accepted it and this will help me in the future. As
someone once said "Cam Lives
On" Words will never describe how you will be missed, I’ve read every word posted to this site, and you were so truly loved by everyone you came in contact with, there are enough tears here, to fill the lake, know that your Uncle Bobby has cried buckets and buckets, I know that you are in the arms of our father, and that you are at peace. When I look at my son I see the same things that made you who you were, he loves bugs, spiders, lizards, frogs, he loves to be outside, and most of all I think that he looks a lot like you. I hope that one day that he is as sweet as you are. Cam I pray every day that God gives Jimmy, Tina and Ali Strength to endure the sorrow of this moment and the ability to understand all of this. I’m struggling with understanding this too, and can’t imagine the amount of emotions that Jimmy, Tina & Ali are going through at this time. You have always been there for me and I’m here for you, anytime you need me, and all ways will be. “ I
Love You Cam” What a shock and a great sorrow....our thoughts and prayers are
with you.... Jimmy,
Tina & Ali: What
a beautiful young man to leave us so soon! I am sorry I did not
know him: he clearly made a positive difference in many lives,
even in his short time. I know that he made a huge difference in
the lives of our friends Melanie and Shari, who will miss him terribly.
They have spoken of him often in appreciation for his love, character
and support. All of us at Shari's office have grieved with you
all at Cameron's passing. May God's love sustain you. Your
sorrow is not wasted. I am believing that God has already and will
continue to use Cameron, his story, and his life for the Lord's
ultimate glory. Uncle Jimmy, Aunt Tina, and Ali, We did sooooo many cool things with Cambo and will always love animals and nature because of him. Here is a list of some of the neat things we did with him: the marshmallow fights were the best with his blow guns, the potato gun was so awesome - how it made giant dents in the grass, giggin' with Cambo and Brandon was great and we will keep on doing it so that Nate will be able to go with us. It was also really fun going in the woods to go squirrel hunting. One of Levi's favorite times was when he, Jake, Melanie and Cambo went to Lazer Tag (even though he kept smooching Melanie-he still had fun). Nate says that Cambo swung him the best and highest on the tire swing. Rhema says that she loved how he swung her on the tire swing (but not too high b/c he knew she was scared), Jake says that every time with Cambo was his favorite because Cambo "just rocked". We love you guys and will always miss our cousin Cambo, Your
zeal and passion was so inspirational. You I'll see you again in His loving arms, Dear
Cameron, We
love you guys and will always miss our cousin Cambo, I
do not know this child, but my heart is with you at this time,
It was such a young age for this child to leave this world. May
the knowledge of gods everlasting love comfort you. There is very little I can say that has not been said by others far more eloquently or which will bring you the answers and comfort you seek. Cameron was an amazing soul whom I wish we had gotten the opportunity to know better since returning to the US. I truly believe he is still with us in spirit, guiding and loving the family and friends he so cared for and who loved him in return so completely and passionately. I have always felt the words of the following poem by Mary Frye stated it best...
It's almost a shame she didn't meet Cam before writing that poem. The lines " I am the boy who chases the frogs, through the streams and in the bogs." would have fit quite nicely after the 2nd line finishing "I am not there. I do not sleep." Cameron will always be a part of everyone's lives and hearts. Love
from Nikky, Nick & Sammie Maginnis Today
is Thanksgiving and even though Cameron is gone I am still thankful
to have had him in my life. I think of him so often and i wish
he was here. I am thankful for the family I have and thankful for
the memories I have of Cameron, I remember them so often they can
turn my day around in a instant. Thinking of Cameron makes me happy,
I wish he was here but memories of him are the next best thing.
I love you. Jimmy
and Tina, I was very sorry to hear of your loss. As
my parents said, he was a second son to them, making him a second
brother to me. It seems like everytime I think of something adventerous
or outdoorsy happening, Cameron was there: From Gulf Shore, to
Pine Point Beach, and Mexico to just my backyard. And of course,
the famous Cameron and Brandon disasters such as the monster potato
gun and smoke bombs in the shed. Even living hundreds of miles
away couldn't stop him from making a memory here. We love & miss
you Cameron. In
working with Cameron a bit, I found what a hard-working, wise-cracking,
sharp-witted, raucous, fun boy he could be; and what a sweet, polite,
humble and lovely young man he had become. I praise God for the
gift of our children and the grace, joy and simplicity He teaches
us to embrace through them. I
loved Cameron so much that every time I think about him now I think
of all the good times we had when I was a litte girl and this summer.I
wanted too let Aunt Tina ,Ali, Uncle Jimmy, and Melanie that I
pray for them every day. I miss him so much I cannot even explain
it. I love you guys. Dear
Jimmy, Tina, Barbara, John and all the Patterson family. I just
found out of the tragic loss of Cameron. It grieves my heart to
know that he is no longer here with us, but great joy also fills
my heart to know that he is with the Lord. To be absent from the
body is to be present with the Lord. I am sorry that I didn't get
a chance to know Cameron, but if he was anything like his father
when he was a young man, I know how wonderful he must have been.
My heart hurts for all of you "many Pattersons" as you
endure the pain of separation from him. My prayers are with you
as you carry this burden of loss. From all the submissions I have
read about Cameron, he was used mightily by the Lord to touch many
lives in a very positive way. Our loss is Heaven's gain. Blessings
to all of you. Brenda and David Gurley and family. I
happened upon your memorial to Cameron by mistake, but it has brought
tears to my eyes. Cameron sounded like such a wonderful young man.
I do know what you are going through because I lost my son Dan
to suicide at age 27 on May 8, 2004. Time does not heal. Memories
do not fade. I know Dan is in a wonderful place, and I am sure
your son Cameron is also. I wish you peace! We
pray for you and the hurt and sorrow you carry. We pray that Ali
will heal and that God will give her miraculous peace and strength
to face life fully and completely. Ken, Jane and Casey As
a sufferer of mental illness who thought of suicide often, I pray
for peace and comfort for your family. Please
know that our thoughts and prayers are with you as you walk through
this time! The darkest hour always comes before new light!!! I think this is an awsome poem. It just says it all:
Jimmy
and Tina and Allie, Sometimes we all forget just how important
we are to those who love us. Please know that nothing can take
away what God has already given us. We who remain on this side
of the dividing line love and support you and like you we wait
to see all of our loved ones again. We love you and we grieve with
you until that time. You were a great friend and i will never forget you, i thoughts and prayer will go on with you, for you are not gone forever but you live with us everyday, RIP James
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