Prozac Nation is a movie that’s been on my Netflix Queue for a long time. It’s been one of those movies that keeps getting pushed down when something more interesting comes up, with the reasoning that I’ll get to it eventually. I wish I hadn’t gotten to it. It’s one of the more infuriating movies I’ve seen in a long time, and that’s not a good thing.
We’ve talked about how grief translates to film well, and
how it dominates the discussion of mental health in American pop culture. The
cinematic qualities of loss were easy to define and understand, so the emotion
took hold as an appropriate topic for important movies. Many of those movies
don’t have anything new to say about it. However, every so often, one does, and
Ordinary People is one of those movies. By focusing on one family member’s
grief and showing how it ripples through the other family members, the movie
says something really powerful.
Ordinary People is about the Jarrett family, specifically
Conrad Jarrett, the family’s teenage son. His older brother Buck drowned in a
boating accident that Conrad survived. The guilt and grief pushed Conrad to a
breakdown that led to a suicide attempt. His father, tax attorney Calvin, found
the boy and saved him, leading Conrad to spend 6 months in a mental hospital.
The movie is set two months after he returns home and begins to put his life
back together. He sees a psychiatrist, begins dating a fellow student and deals
with his father’s grief and his mother’s anger. Strong performances by Donald
Sutherland as Calvin, Mary Tyler Moore as Beth and especially Timothy Hutton as
Conrad, anchor the film.
The movie is small but influential, focusing on the family
and its grief. Hutton, who would be the youngest Best Supporting Actor Oscar
winner at 20, grounds Conrad in reality. He’s a scared, troubled boy holding on
to grief, anger and fear, and Hutton makes all of that believable. He wants to
do what’s right and be perfect, but he can’t. The swell of emotions is palpable
and well-drawn, and as an audience member, you feel terrible for Conrad. He
can’t seem to do anything right, and the guilt weighs on him almost psychically.
His performance is the center of the movie, and you feel for the young man. The
portrayal of grief is not groundbreaking in what it contains, but how
masterfully he performs it. Judd Hersh, who plays Dr. Berger, is a wonderful,
strong presence who actually helps Conrad in meaningful ways. His therapy is
full of actual wisdom, instead of platitudes, and he makes the character feel
as important to the movie as he does to Conrad.
Where the movie gets in to the groundbreaking stuff is with
his parents. The older Jarretts seem to have the perfect life. They are upper
class, have supportive friends and go to great parties. They even go on
vacation. Calvin tells Dr. Berger, Conrad’s psychiatrist, that he thought that
his life was perfect. He loves his son very much and does everything he can to
help him. He encourages Conrad to go to therapy, takes an active interest in
the boy’s health and is a generally good presence. He is grieving as well, but
is able to articulate his grief and uses it to help his son heal. Both men
understand that something is wrong and are willing to address it.
Beth, Conrad’s mother, is a different story entirely. She is
cold, angry and depressed, but won’t admit to any of it. At first, she seems
like she shut down with Bucks’s death, refusing to acknowledge anything is
wrong. She yells at Calvin for telling family friends about Conrad’s therapy,
goads him into taking a vacation without him and repeatedly tells Calvin that
Conrad is just trying to manipulate him into doing whatever he wants. At no
time in the movie does that seem to be true at all, even when Conrad might have
been able to. Calvin tells her that Conrad just wants to know she doesn’t hate
him, and she can’t even do that. When she and Conrad finally have an argument,
Conrad yells that she never came to visit him in the hospital and says that
she’d visit Buck. She yells that “Buck would never have been in the hospital.”
It’s a bold choice to have the mother as the withdrawn, angry parent since
those traits are usually assigned to fathers in movies about grief. By the end
of the movie, Calvin admits that he’s not sure she can love anyone, and she
doesn’t argue with him, but rather runs away from the problems. It’s a great,
brave performance for Mary Tyler Moore, who's able to push all of her America’s
Sweetheart energy completely away.
By looking at how Conrad’s grief and guilt affect his
parents and their grief, Ordinary People said something interesting about the
process of healing. It's another great example of therapy being used in a
positive way in a movie, perhaps better than I’ve seen since I’ve started this
blog. It suffers from the same “only rich white people get therapy” issue that
a lot of movies suffer from, but that is a larger Hollywood problem.
I highly recommend this one, especially if you want a good
cry. Next week, we’ll look at Prozac Nation, an early 2000s film about mental
health in college. Have you seen Ordinary People? What did you think?
Dr. Frasier Crane has been overlooked in the last few years, but for many people, Kelsey Grammer’s psychiatrist was the mental health professional they knew best. For some, he might have been the only one. Through Cheers and its spin-off Frasier, he brought the good natured doctor (and some genuine mental health knowledge) to TV for 22 years.
The show Frasier is set after Cheers finished, moving Dr. Crane to Seattle. There, he lives with father Martin, a blue collar former cop injured on the job, and the older man’s nurse Daphne, a flighty English nurse, and spends time arguing with his psychiatrist brother Niles, who might be more pompous and ridiculous than he is. He hosts a call-in radio show where he gives mental health advice to callers, who usually have preposterous problems that he solves with silly solutions. His co-workers at the office, including his producer Roz, give a different perspective to his high-brow, pompous view of the world. He still fights with his ex-wife Lilith about raising their son Frederick.
I finally watched the worst movie yet for this blog, The Caveman’s Valentine. I’ve watched movies I thought would be terrible but were better than anticipated (A Beautiful Mind), and movies that I thought would be good but were just terrible (Girl Interrupted), but wow. This just takes the cake.
Mental Health in the Headlines: Week of July 29, 2013
In this week's issue:
The New York Times reports “Mental Health Cuts in Utah Leave Patients Adrift.” Kansas Health Institute looks at success of health homes. Behavioral Healthcare magazine examines” How behavioral health professionals can shape the future of health care teams.” The U.S. Justice Department’s blog celebrates 23 years of the Americans with Disabilities Act. Psychcentral.com looks at “Explaining Mental Illness to Children.” Medicare News Group reports on coordinated care.
Coping with plenty of leisure activities and sense of purpose in life
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